Can you give me your opinions? I just ran into a myspace account that my cousin has...he is married but his myspace states he is single and the only friends he has are girls (like 8 of them). His wife does not know about this myspace....what is he doing? Do you think he's looking for other options? The setup date for the myspace is AFTER his wedding date so he WAS married when he set it up...should I tell his wife? Is it my place?
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
They say blood is thicker than water but I don't always agree.
If a family member is doing something wrong it should not be overlooked, excused or covered up to a faithful trusting spouse.
Yes he is looking for other options because he is stating he is single and only has girls on his page. He doesn't want them to know he is married because he doesn't want to spoil any of his chances to cheat.
Don't tell him you know about the page, don't mention it to him and question him. If he gets scared he will only just hide it from the public, post a different pic, change his age and location to keep the truth from being known.
I would not mention it to him but tell his wife and give her his myspace address so she can see for herself.
His wife will not be happy to learn she is married to a cheating dog but I would tell her. You would want to know if your b/f or husband was on the net stating he was single and trying to meet and pick up girls.
He will be upset of course (cheaters want their cake and want to eat it too), but if you tell her you will be doing the right thing.
She will be upset but she will appreciate that you told her.
It doesn't matter if it is your place or not.
It is her right to know that her husband Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde is sneaking around behind her back and cheating.
If you don't tell her she may never find out the truth or at least not anytime soon. He is probably sleeping around and could very well give her an STD if he hasn't already done so.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
tell what the hell
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Does he have some kind of special talent such as rap, singing or modeling? Alot of married people use myspace to network with each other on things like that. But, if that is not the case and she does not know about it then something should be done. Don't talk to her right off, first talk to your cousin. Let him know how you feel. I am sure that if you tell him that you are thinking about telling her that he will either tell her himself or get rid of the site! It all depends on if he has something to hide. From what you say, it seems like he does have something to hide. But, give him the benefit of the doubt first.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
i know others won't agree..but i say, yes, blow his cover.
if i were your cousin, i would appreciate you telling me. instead of living under the illusion that my husband is who he says he is.
the risk is that she may not believe you! or you may lose her friendship - that happens as a hurt person sometimes lashes out at others..
if you want to take that risk, but know in your heart that you love your cousin and aren't telling her for the wrong motives..than i would tell.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
I think you should tell his wife because that is just not right. It may not be your place but if you don't tell who will? Think about it if you wait for her to catch him herself she may end up catching something. For her sake tell her! Think if it was you im sure you would appreciate someone that cares enough to let you know what is going on.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Not your place to tell. Stay out of domestic issues unless you believe abuse is involved. Otherwise you are just asking for trouble.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Oh boy. Myspace. The perpetual relationship killer. Have you added him as a friend? That should at least let him know he's busted. At least on your end. If that doesn't work, put that profile in your top 8 to let him know that his other profile is out in the open. Ultimately, it's not your business, though it is a little strange. Has someone hacked his account? People do make fake accounts with real pepople's pictures. You're his family so it's not your place to tell his wife, but if you feel like it would be useful to casually bring it up to Him privately, try it. In the end, it's a myspace account. MYSPACE. Let him know that if you were married and your husband was flirting with women online, it would hurt you and that his wife would probably be hurt if she found out. That's as far as you can go without crossing too many lines.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
You should try and add yourself as a friend and see how he reacts!! Go from there!!
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
It really depends. How elaborate is his myspace profile? The default setting is 'single' so if he hasn't taken the time to fill out his profile information correctly then it's going to say single.
Having female friends is no problem and myspace is just a networking service, nothing special. He could just as easily find someone to cheat with offline.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Why not just ask him to let you join his myspace? Don't tell the wife.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Wouldn't you want to know?
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
I don't really think it's your place to tell on him, especially since you don't have proof that he is cheating but it sounds like is intentions are BAD.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Yes you should.But do it in a way that she won't know it you.Just to save yourself a head ache.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
like they say if theres a smoke theres a fire now about the telling if in case your inclining tell then do so but theres always repurcussions to our actions or lack of it i cant tell you if you should or not that your decisions to take the only thing is that you better be ready for the worst...
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Yes, she should know. Wouldn't you want to know? I know I would.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Don't tell his wife as he may have a good reason why he has a myspace account. I would be confronting him myself and letting him know that you know, but before doing so get a print out of a few things, this way he can't go and delete it, resulting in the whole thing back firing on you and then you will become the bady with egg on your face. Yes see what his reaction is to you knowing and what he has to say about it.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Ask his wife how would she feel if her hubby had a myspace account and didn't know about it. Take it from there. My hubby has one girls write him and send sexy pic i just laugh im secure with who i am and what i have with my man. To me its all for fun!
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
If you ask me, it's a lose/lose situation. If you let his wife know, he'll be angry at you. If you don't let her know then she will be angry with you when she finds out. However, you ought to do the right thing...and that, in this case, is telling the wife. She has a right to know, and can probably take things into her own hands once you tell her. Your cousin won't be happy, but there's nothing you can do about that. In the end, you have to make the final decision yourself, but ask yourself this...do you want a cousin that got things everything his own way, but you have a guilty conscience and know it was the wrong thing you could have done? Or do you want a clean conscience, with a knowing wife but an unhappy cousin? I say, do it for your moral and the wife's self-esteem.
He has myspace and she doesn't know...?
Its pretty obvious hes flirting on there. I cant say hes cheated on her yet, but the signs point to he's heading in that direction. You should tell hes wife before things go any further.
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