Is it because of jealousy that girls are being so hateful to each other? Some girls say the rudest, meanest, nastiest things to one another even if they dont know someone personally. I see it all over MySpace and here on Yahoo! What the heck is the problem with girls hating each other so much???
Why cant girls just get along?
Have you noticed that when men have conflict, generally they say it up front. if its big then theyll brawl it out. either way they confront it and solve it, or agree not to get in each others way again.
Theres a theory that because women have been the oppressed sex for so long, and been taught from a young age that it is proper and lady like to avoid conflict, we are not adequate in dealing with things in a straightforward way.
Thats one theory anyway.
as a general rule, its unnattractive to see a woman being aggressive in anyway. its unfeminine. So female fighting and competition is always sly, manipulative and more subtle than a full on brawl.
The key to winning a female battle is for everyone else to see your opponent as the evil snake she is, while maintaining your own saintly reputation.
The double standard is that men are praised for their straighforward and no bullshit attitude to conflict (when its reasonable, punch ons about the footie are NOT reasonable) whereas a man who fights in the 'feminine' subtle and sneaky way is seen as scum, and is immasculated by his peers.
unfortunately females wont change as a group any time soon because out society propells it too much. if your lucky, you'll find a more mature group who can rise above the cattiness and fight more productively.
Why cant girls just get along?
too much hormones thats why lol
Why cant girls just get along?
It' s not in our nature to be nice.
Why cant girls just get along?
because girls are petty and competitive and mostly all girls are plagued by looking the best being the smartest and being the best at everything because thats what they think society wants from them... most grow out of it when they discover they're not perfect, although many stay bitter long after... forever chasing their fake happiness.
Why cant girls just get along?
2 me when girls say things that mean that they are jealous of u they want something u got
Why cant girls just get along?
I used to work in an all male environment, we worked at an Electric company - everyone got along wonderful!! BUT upstairs it was all women that ran the office, you would not believe the crap that went on up there. I see it on myspace too - women are so petty and they just can't get along. I can get along with anyone, so I know it isn't all women. Maybe it's because we're so opinionated and let it show on other women. It really drives me crazy, I've almost deleted my myspace because of the petty bickering and other women coming to my page and criticizing me on someone else's. It's crazy, I've realized I'll never have a REAL female friend. I believe jealousy has a great deal to do with it.
Why cant girls just get along?
It depends on their behavior...not all girls fight and don't get along. those little internet fights are the stupidest...maybe those are just a bunch of girls who want attention but there are girls who are really nice ^^)...
Why cant girls just get along?
Because girls are sooo insecure. Even though you think you're not, there's always something in the back of your mind that you feel insecure about. Then you start comparing yourself to other girls and it changes into jealousy, envy or whatever you want to call it. Hormones can explain it too. Maybe girls are expected to express their feeling more than guys. And when girls do express them themselves too much, maybe some things they should have kept to themselves like most guys do, girls start not getting along.
Why cant girls just get along?
Because they all want to be the best and can't live with someone being better than them at something. Jealousy big style. Plus there's this peer pressure to look really good all the time and have the most expensive things etc....personally I'll stick with my scruffy hair and clothes from Primark thanks very much! I get some rotten looks but at least I'm happy and not bitching 24/7. I know exactly what you mean and it drives me mental...probably why I have so many male friends lol.
Why cant girls just get along?
Because they don't like how you look or any of that they don"t normally look in the heart they tear you down from there judgements on you. It is normally jealousy because they are jealous of you for the friends you have or your boyfriend or your life period.
Why cant girls just get along?
beacuse we always tend to think we are better. ture story and it sucks
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