I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

I've been with my boyfriend for over 4yrs. and 10mon. on March I found out that he had a myspace blog saying he was single with over 100 girls. So I went into his email and he was giving out his phone number, talking to girls, and talking dirty. Saying they were so pretty and he wished he can hug them. I confronted him and he said I was just making a big deal. I know that it was a big deal because we have been with each other for so long and never have split. Not only that but he had that for almost 6mon. I forgive him because he is my first boyfriend and first love. I felt as if it was my fault also because I'm always busy with work, family, and college. I cant trust him no more so then a week ago I made up an email address saying I was some chick and that I wanted to meet him. He has replied and did mention he kind of had a girlfriend. But said he will like to know her because he's curious. I don't know what to do please give me your opinion!!

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Dump this disgusting ratbag.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

dump him...i mean come on girl you can do better than that...the guy doesnt deserve you by doing all that...leave him and forget about him

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

yes stay with em, i had that prob too.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

kick him to the curb!Move on with your life before he ruins it!

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Well, technically since he's not married, he WOULD be considered single. Move on if he's cheating on you and won't marry you.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

did he cheat physically? if so dump his ***-as for this? please, your not seriously involved, so enjoy it-if you are-then your in BIG trouble. Many men, find one that likes YOU-not just you and others

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

dump hi, 5 years is too long to still think you are single.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

He's just not into you. Move on.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Get rid of him! 4 years of your life wasted is better than being married with kids and then finding out.

Dump the jerk!

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

You have your whole life ahead of you. I love my BF more than anyone I've ever loved, but if I caught him doing that or ANYTHING similar, I'd dump him in a heartbeat because I deserve better and YOU DESERVE BETTER!

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Guys do this all the time. It's all just talk to make him look like "the man". Did he ever act on any of this? It's all talk.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Yes, you should stay with him because he might not have known how to change his status. The default status for myspace is SINGLE so don't stress..I thought the same thing about my boyfriend and then I found out that everyone's says single unless you actually know how to change it :-)

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

oh girl play that name you got for sure to find out but if it were me he wouldve beendone when you read those emails

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

I dont think he should be giving out his number and telling them he is single.

In my opinion he will do it again, I thinnk you need to dumb his butt. there are tons more men out there that will not do that to you, you dont deserve that.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Time to let him know that you know what he's doing. Also time to figure out if the relationship is worth it. Time for him to decide what to do, and if he either wants you or wants to play - he can't have it both ways.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

ya stay with him but talk to it about him see y he dosent want people knowing that u 2 are dating

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

make you own mind up

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Leave him. He is not being real to with you

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Set up a date and meet him. Then you will have your answer. Cheating.... and espically on the ineternet is easy and many people get sucked in to it and become addicted to it. Don't put yourself in jeopardy for STD's or heart break.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

dump dat ***** im pretty sure he is like cheating with probly yunger females dump him

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

dump him, If he cheated on you once ( and yes he cheated) then he will do it again!!!!

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Are you married to him? No.

Then he's single.

Marital Status = Single, Married, Divorced, Separated or Widowed.

There's no classification for "I have a girlfriend" respected by law.

So technically he didnt lie.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

If it were just online flirting and blogging I would say forgive him, but since he is on the phone with them and talking about meeting them...hell no, ditch him girl! Good luck and don't worry, you'll find someone who deserves you!

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

I would say that you can't TRUST him.. Seams like a sneaky guy to me... I bet he would go through the roof if he caught you doint the same thing...

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

You have to leave him! That's a long freaking relationship and he still says he's single. He obvisiously doesn't take you seriously or appreciates you. If you're in college you should be dating up a storm! If this is your first boyfriend, are you ready to settle? Is this what you want for the rest of your life if he were to ask you to marry him?

There is NO EXCUSE for people in relationships to stray. Just because you have a life and he isn't in it as much doesn't mean he gets to be with other girls. You're making something of yourself and that's how it should be. He should be doing the same thing. I think when you're with someone they're a PART of your life, not your ONLY life. You have other things and it's good to have someone to share them with. DO NOT blame yourself. That's not fair.

Leave him or take a break to figure some things out for yourself. Good luck!

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

u should answer his email, arrange to meet and hav it out wit him. If he is willing to accept and meet no he cant b trusted. U being busy is no excuse for his behaviour, ur leading a normal life we all work see family and go to college, dont b blaming urself. i was once cheated on and its not nice. U need to sort it now b 4 u get hurt.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

men cheat: they are liars, they are dogs, they are no goods. Assess your relationship. If there is a lot to it maybe you should stay. After all, consider all the times you may have visisted porn sites, answered singles surveys just for the fun of it, and to see if you still have it going on. It's not little boys right? It's women and, consider, you leave him, the next bastard you invite into your life will do the same thing. Even worse!

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Obviously you can't trust him. And he's apparently the kind of guy who needs attention from more than one girl. It's not your fault, if he really cared, he'd mention it if he thought you weren't spending enough time together, so you could both work on things. My ex is the same way. Since we broke up, he's been doing the same thing. He was with someone, but had on his myspace that he was single, and the only friends he has on there are girls. I guess you could give him some credit since he mentioned he had a girlfriend, but then again he doesn't need to go out to meet new girls without you if you two are together.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

i think ur boyfriend just wants to see if he can still get gurls, like if u dump him or something. he is a guy and thats wut they do, they flirt to see who has the most game

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

Just curious, why are you not married after all this time?Boy friends are for kids and what you have is a shackie.Dump the bum and go find the love of you life, It isn't this loser. Next time get married before setting up a household. He wasn't lying. He is single and you have squat for rights over what he does. Grow up.

I need a opinion if I still should be with my boyfriend after catching him in myspace being single ?

He might just like talking to girls on line. But he shouldn't be doing this anymore (not that he should of in the first place)since you have confronted him and he knows that it upsets you. He is disrespecting you by continuing to say he is single. If trust is a major issue, then you have some serious decisions to make. You can't have a good relationship with him if he can't be trusted, and he downplays your feelings. I think it's time to maybe free yourself and open yourself up to new relationships. Or give him the ultimatum to stop picking girls up on line or you will break up with him. It's not your fault. Don't blame yourself. Just because you are a mature adult going to college and working doesn't give him the right to do stuff like this.