I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

i dont understand. i look at my friends, and their friends. and shocked at how hes hitting on girls, and walking with girls. im in high school, and have close to 0 girls as friends. but alot of my guy friends have girls. they laugh with'em and has alot of pictures on myspace. and memories. sure my friends have tried to help me by inviding me to mall and stuff. but it doesent work, i be myself when girls are next to me. now i feel so alone, that i have no one to hang with. what to do...how can i be more like my friends then boring myself. i want to get out there to partys, but i dont see it happening. what to do?

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

It sounds like you're in a difficult situation. I can completely understand how hard it must be for you to deal with the hurt that may arise in seeing your friends happy going out with girls, leaving you with an empty void in your stomach.

What you need to understand is WHY you want a girlfriend. Are you looking to have one so that you don't feel like that "third wheel" in your group of friends anymore? Or are you truly seeking a close friend to share your time and feelings with? The more you understand your motivations for having a girlfriend, the easier it will become to actually have one.

Another thing to realize is that just because your friends have girlfriends, it doesn't necessarily mean that you must have one as well. While you may feel lonely, please remember that you don't have to feel that way. Simply look at all the positive traits you have, and that alone will give you confidence.

Above all, just remember:

"We can never be the people we admire. We can only be ourselves, and that alone is remarkable."

Hope that helps!

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Just build up your self confidence and talk to them.

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Me as a girl, I like shy guys. There cute, Ecspecially since im shy for a few moments, but once you start talking , if you and the girl click , its all good from there. Just start talking and girls will talk, if there nice. If there NOT nice, why do you want to be with them anyway?? go to chat rooms and practice :]]

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

maybe ur just ugly.. that sucks.. or maybe they think ur gay.. good luck!

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Idk. I feel the same way but I am a girl. If you don't mind we can go out online and you can be my online boyfriend. I know that sounds dumb but it is just for fun!

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

how old r u,i am 17 and i am single maybe we can talk this is my email -bhzchick08@yahoo.com

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

I hope I can help. I used to have the same problem. Just try to be funny, and sarcastic sometimes. Also stop worrying so much and just have a good time, if you worry you wont have a good time and mess things up and they might end up not liking you, and also ask your friends for advice

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Dude, you need to learn some social skills.

"Being yourself" looks good on paper, but the truth is you need to be your BEST self.

Go to fastseduction.com and you'll learn how to attract %26amp; connect with women like your boys.

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

sit next to them, and as soon as they turn around, grab their head and shove their head into your baby-producer. they always do that to me, exept they do that to me when theyre naked

(by the way, i'm a guy)

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Iol i think its kinda cute when a boy has trouble talking with girls.... maybe cuzz i have trouble talking with boys.... but anyway just be yourself, sorry but i cant givea good answer when im in the same situation. Bye sweetie. Good luck!

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Hey, dont worry, i feel that way all the time! And since your friends invited you to a mall or whatever, seize the opportunity and go out, meet girls and have fun! Once you start talking to them it will be a lot easier once you get used to it!

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

You need to feel better about who you are and that is not gonna start at a party. Consciously or subconsciously we as people like being around those who feel good about themselves, there is something attractive about someone who is confident. When you learn to like things about yourself and feel good about those things, it will just manifest itself. And thus, people will enjoy being around you, includin' the ladies. Girls worth spendin' time with dig that.

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Hey man, it is because you are feeling down on yourself here. You really need to have confidence to win over the ladies. Plus, your game has not even started yet. College is even better and you can go there as a new man. Then you will feel better and look back on HS and think how dumb you were for even caring about the social scene

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Have you hit on one of the girls? They might like you, but you have to make a move and flirt with them. You can't just sit around and chat.

In sales, you have to get the client to sign on the line which is dotted. You can't just smile and chat.

Be more assertive if you are not already.

PS I agree with the other guy--your game hasn't even started. College is where the ladies are totally horny and easy. Get good grades and go to a party school.

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

i dont think you want girlfriends, you want hos.

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

you said you have close to zero girls as firends, so just get that one to help you out im sure that she owuld if shes close with also just start to talk to her a lot and when you build your confidence and realize that you can do it hang with her and then she'll talk to all of her friends aobut how much fun she had with you and then youll get noticed. Girls like outgoing guys, try and be out going and make it seem like your having a great time when your around them but dont get cocky girls like it when a guy can let his gaurd down when he's with her. If you have a girl in mind, just simply start to talk to her, if your friends with her then start talking to her online and stuff. Things will start to flow. good luck!

casey o0x

p.s. don't forget to flirt, girls like when guys flirt with them and give them attention, trust me, they LOVE it.

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Wow, you're like the parallel dimension me. Except my friends aren't helping me in any sense XD And that I have friends who are guys, but I think I'd rather date my washing machine. Wow, don't I sound like a horrible person...it's more complicated than that, honestly.

Anyway, I really don't have much good advice, being in a similar situation. My only advice would be; if you're in two minds whether to talk to a girl/ask her out etc., just be brave and do it. Because if it doesn't go well, it'll be mildly embarassing but you'll eventually forget about it. But at least you can look back and say 'I tried my best'.

And I'm sure you're not boring =)

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

well me and my friend britt think that you should enjoy life and not be in a rush 90% of girls like guys that appear to not care if they have a girl friend or not alot of people like it better when guys dont seem desperate or upset about the amount of friends they have.. just be patient and wait we're sure that youll find a girl when you least expect it. "The people who matter dont care and the ones that care dont matter"

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

You haven't met the right girl for you. Just wait, she will come along to enchant you, love you, and appreciate you. Do not fret over what will be, or what has yet to come, young man. You have the rest of your life to find the right one for you. In the meanwhile, enjoy your life, and do not lament on what you do not have, but rather what you do have, and what you've got going for you. This is what I've told my own son, and now I'm telling you...enjoy your life young man! Do your own thing, get your education, your career, and enjoy life. Girls will be there when you finish seeing the world. Enjoy your freedom!

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

please continue to be yourself never ever imitate. some people are just late bloomers. So my advice to you is to concentrate more on ways to improve your confidence, and one day you will meet someone that appreciate all that you have to offer. don't rush it let it come naturally. oh, and you sound like a very sweet guy good luck.

I dont get it? why does he get a the girls and i dont?

Build up your self esteem and be more confident around them think about the way you met your friends and start from there