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I chat with this girl I really dig on myspace ( I know it's lame) and sometimes I think she's online cuz it says so, and I decide to send her a message sometimes I put " hey how are you" and today I sent her one like this " hey I found you lol.. how are you"

BUT the problem is that I think she's online and so I send this messages I wait for her to reply but it turns out that she's logged out, and so I feel so embarrased afterwards because you can't delete what you sent, and she always logs on the next day and she reads it. TO me it's very embarrasing and I feel like an idiot after she reads them because she won't reply, I feel like she probably thinks I'm was stupid or something.

But enough about me, What do you think? Is it embarrasing or is it plain normal and not bad?

AND if you were the girl I would sent to How would you feel? after you read those messages from before.

Opinions will be really appreciate it. THANKS

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Well it all depends, does this girl chat with you when she IS online? If she does, especially after she sees one of your messages, then I dont think its that big of a deal, nor embarrassing. However, it depends on how many times this occurs also.

I wonder how much you think she "digs" you. Does she initiate chats? This feeling you have may have more to do with the fact that you probably feel you are showing more interest in her than she in you.

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Send her an email instead...I wouldn't be embarrassed though, just quit messaging her.

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Well i understand why u feel embaressed, but there shouldnt really be a problem with her replying once she does come online.

Is she on bebo? Because u can delete your comments on there.

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It's normal, i've actually done that before. lol Don't sweat it. At least you are being polite and taking the time to speak to her, and check up on her well being. I think it's nice. :-)

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I would be kinda confused if you werent on. But it doent seem that weird. Maybe she wasnt replying becuz she was busy.

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I think you should lay off contacting her for awhile. Let her contact you if she wants. Sounds like she's not anxious to communicate with you for whatever reason.

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That's normal to send someone something and they aren't even online. It's like sending someone a email. If I was her I would be flattered that a guy cared enough about me to write to me. You are a very nice person and keep on writing!

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I don't think sending the messages is any big deal. I mean, you meant for her to see them, right? That's why you sent them. So what difference does it make if she sees your messages instantly or a few hours later? Don't worry about it. But don't send a bunch of messages -- just one a day or every other day -- or she'll think you're a stalker.

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IF a guy sent me those messages on my space and him and i had a history together like I use to talk to him before or we talk sometimes at school or on myspace then no i would not think its stupid, I would think its cute.. But if i never met you and you just randomly keep sending me messages like that i would be kinda freeked out lol. But if its just that once and i never met you i would reply. IT depends on the girl.

Best of wishes, kesha

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that might seem kind of weird at first. but just tell her that it was a mistake that you sent them to her and you were trying to send them to someone else. hopefully she'll believe you. and if not i am very sorry!!!!

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that's not bad at all!!!! don't worry about it.. I am a girl and I would love that a guy was thinking about me. She shouldn't think you are stupid for that. That probably happens a lot. I definitely wouldn't worry about it... it's not a big deal. If she likes you she would think it was cute still. Just don't message her like Every Single day like that.. because then you might just become a little annoying. but you are totally fine!

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First of all, since you already realize myspace is lame (and it is), you won't have a problem finding another way of communicating with her.

Get her number, call her, ask her out. If she says yes, you've got a first date to get to know her better; if she says no, you know exactly where you stand and can move on.

If I were her, I'd probably think it was sweet he'd tried to contact me the first time, but after that I'd think he was somewhat of a coward or that he was not interested in me enough to buck up the courage to talk to me properly.

It's all about the risks my friend: take them, go forth, and prosper.

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It's really not that bad at all.

You sound like a really nice guy, but ease up a little hey? ;)

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like the lady that i am, i would have responded even with a simple "than you for your note." even if i read your messages a day or days after. that's just the polite thing to do.

relax! these situations happen all the time. broaden your horizon and chat w/ other girls as well. the "right gal" may just be logged on right now. GOOD LUCK!

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Don't be embarrassed... you didn't say anything cheesy or come on strong. It was just a friendly message. Let it go at that. No sweat. If I read that message, I would smile.

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if you sent her msgs like that , you are really telling her that you have a crush .. unless you really want her to know that ! girls found that really annoying when some1 does that! i think that you should stop ur msgs for your own good ,, if she really likes you she will write back after a while .. and one more thing . hun yes you can delete your comments . you just go to view all comment .. and tehn press delete my comment . unless her comment are to be approved by her that impossible because she has to read tehm 1st and accept them .. so you could do that !

i think it's a little embarrasing for you .. but dont worry most of us do that kind of stuff and we don t realize it because they're msgs .. good luck though

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i think it's really sweet that you take time to talk to her. you shouldn't feel embarrased at all. but this chik sounds like a b*tch to me. she should be glad you want to talk to her and at least answer you. :)

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Give her some bubble space. She`ll probably think your a stalker or molester if you keep messagin` her everytime.

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Well I thinks its normal. Its not just what she thinks. Have you seen her have you meet her? You need to get to know her before starting to comment, send a email to the myspce people , (TOM) and then tell him that it says your friends are online when they arent and see if he can fix it. I would feel as if I have someone that likes me id be happy for myself because it makes me believe in myself. Good Luck!

-Janessa (don't forget to talk to her)