Myspace....does it really matter??

i dont mean to be petty by askin this...i jus wanna know. I would prefer a guys response but girls can answer too. Should it tell me sumthin if my boyfriend refuses to add me as a friend on myspace, which a few months ago had been the root of an argument between me and an ex of his. He also all the sudden changed his profile to private, so i caint even jus look at it, not that i do that much anyway, i'm not on myspace all like that. i jus wanna know if you think i'm trippin or if you think he may be hiding sumthin????

Myspace....does it really matter??

Sorry to say girl, he's hinding something from you, I cant tell you what to do , But I would dump him and find a man that doesn't treat me like that.Stand up for yourself, and respect yourself

Myspace....does it really matter??

there's no way you can know.

Myspace....does it really matter??

Yes it sounds like he is trying to hide something from you. I would at least keep my eyes open.

Myspace....does it really matter??

Yep, he's hiding something. Why would you not even let your own girlfriend see your profile?

Steal his password and delete his ex :)

Myspace....does it really matter??

Uh... yeah.

Myspace....does it really matter??

i think he might be hiding something from you, and yes i believe it's a big deal.

Myspace....does it really matter??

I think you should ask him why he feels you shouldnt see his myspace. You're not tripping if he's doing all of that whne you just ask him to friend you.

Myspace....does it really matter??

i think he is hidding somthing from u. my and my boyfriend now each other passwords and eveything.

Myspace....does it really matter??

i dont know myspace is evil lol jk jk...but it does sound like he's hiding something....you should just make ur profile private and refuse to add him and see how he likes it.

Myspace....does it really matter??

Don't waste your time honey, let this one go. It won't hurt as bad doing it on your terms, cuz if you wait, I'm sure things will end on his terms - save yourself the pain. You'll meet someone else and be number 1 on his myspace! Be strong.

Myspace....does it really matter??

Yeah he is probaly definatly up to something if he won't let you see it if not it shouldn't be a big deal right! What I would is make up a fake profile and get him to accept you as his friend so you can view it and not let him know. I know this sounds bad but oh well you have to find out some way why he is being all sneaky! Good Luck!

Myspace....does it really matter??

I would be curious too, I would want to know what "friends" (girls) he is making friends with.

Myspace....does it really matter??

wow! no i don't think ur trippen...he seems like he's hiding something......have u asked him why not ? and why he wont even let his girlfriend see his profile ! ? i'd be very upset if my boyfriend wouldnt let me see his myspace and yeah i'm not into myspace really..like barely.......but something seems wrong there! i wish u luck figuring that out !

Myspace....does it really matter??

if hes your boyfriend he shouldn't be treating you like that. hes probably hiding something, hes messing around or cheating. but i wouldn't be sure with both. he might just be embarrassed of something on his profile. either way you should be more assertive to him and tell him that you don't like that. and if he doesn't do anything about it, then there is always other fish in the sea.

Myspace....does it really matter??

If you haven't been going out that long, then don't worry about it yet. If you have been going out steadily for a 6 months or more (without any major problems) then its on the strange side.

It sounds like he could be hiding something... maybe a picture or some comments someone has been making...

he could also not want the drama of people making a big deal out of nothing, especially if you have a tendency to overreact.

I would personally be suspicious, MySpace is for friends and loved ones to share things with each other. If he's afraid you'll overreact to something, then he should either, not post it, or delete it, of better yet, reassure you its nothing, (especially if it really is nothing)

Myspace....does it really matter??

It sounds like he has added some friends that he doesn't want you to know about. He's hiding something. You're not trippin.

Myspace....does it really matter??

i know many people that have had relationships made and broken through myspace. and i know that everyone always says it's just myspace and that you should not let it matter and that it doesnt matter. but let's all be honest with ourselves! yes, it may just be myspace but the fact of the matter is if he didnt have anything to hide then it would mean nothing and it would be a pleasure for him to add you as a friend. especially when that is such a simple task. not to matter that he would want you as his number 1 friend. i think that if you really care for someone you would be happy and proud of it and want to share it with everyone. even on myspace. and this also counts if let's say he only used myspace for business he should still add you as a friend. i know it may seem like a silly argument, and be careful because when you mention it to him he'll probably try and flip it on you and make it seem like your overreacting, just remember YOUR NOT! and your in the right! hun be cautious he's got something to hide and he's not doing a very good job of hiding it!